Why do feminists claim that men benefit from gender roles and women don't?

I'm a woman, and not a feminist. I think feminists claim that men benefit from gender roles and women don't because they are STUPID. They don't wish for equality - they wish for a female DOMINATED society. They also don't take into account the things that most men are willing to do for most women. It's just ignorance at work, spreading like disease. I am definitely in support of equal pay, but that's about it. Traditional gender roles work just fine for me. I'd much rather cook my boyfriend three meals a day than to watch him struggle with it or poison his body with fast food. I'd much rather do all the laundry and cleaning than go out and try to fix my car by myself. I'm perfectly happy with being asked out on dates, being able to use my uality to influence things, never pay for meals or open doors for myself, etc. I have no idea what kind of envy feminists are going through, but they seriously need to get over it. We are NOT men, we are not built like them physically. They are not US, they are not built like us physically. We both have different chemical components and physiques. What about us is equal? We should be treated equally by others, but we are not equal in relation to EACH OTHER. That just doesn't make sense. We're not the same. What's so wrong with knowing your role and staying in it? I love being a woman.