What should you do when u are confused ?

time for me is less. on one side i have my mothers expectations to fulfill and on the other side i met a realised soul who asked me whether i want to be with him full time ? till now i have lead a fully worldly life(in every sense of it ), but over indulgence in sensual pleasures lead me to depression. i am 32 not married,jobless. my mother has enough means to support her and i have got a sister who is married.so i dont know what to do be your mother's boy or follow a satguru whom you experience as an incredible phenomena.He only asked me politely whether u want to join me? this is once in a life time opportunity,but i dont know whether he is testing me? one part of me sees the futility of worldly life but the other part is afraid whether it can make such a huge commitment of self- discipline because of my past life style.anyhow right now i have stopped all that gave me pleasure except for 1 or 2 things and living quite a rigorous regime. please comment.